Talk @#$# Have Fun

I really wish people would just sit in party chat with Renegade and Myself on any given night and just hear the tremendous amount of shit we talk to each other.

There is a lot of What the **** are you doing and things of that nature and as we all know I go above and beyond most times. The reason we get along though is because we both understand that , that is a heat of the moment thing and in 5 minutes it's forgotten. We have been gaming together for years now and there is no one whom I have said worst shit to then him, he doesn't take it personally and when he comes at me I usually have to agree with what he has to say.

Allow people to point out your mistakes and your flaws in anyway they feel comfortable. Acknowledge them and you will be able to grow from there.

Do it in the moment though and not on a forum or 5 days down the road in some super passive aggressive way. Deal with it directly and promptly and it will usually end with everyone having a laugh and playing a few more rounds.

There is just way to much hate brought on by people who take things far to personally when in reality it's just one person venting the only way they know how.

We need to actually listen to what each other has to say rather then being on the defensive all the time and know the difference between venting and hate.

Come in our lobby. You'll hear me get frustrated and you'll hear me offer support. I am as transparent as they come and I think we all could do with a little more of that.

I am just saying when we get frustrated with each other just stick it out don't take things so hard.

I have used Renegade as an example and no doubt he will consider this a love letter.

so what are you trying to say about me dub?!!!

LOL

I would debate that statement of not being harder on anyone that renegade.

We don't get in lobby much, but when we do, you rail on me pretty hard

But I love you anyway dub!!

Your the same way pro. You don't take it personally either which is why your still here. If we took everything people said as a personal attack none of us would still be gaming together or chatting. Everyone would hate everyone.

Im just saying if someone says something to you first think if it's actually something that your doing and you can fix before lashing back out

everyone just needs to take the time to get to know each others personalities.

some people are easier to get along with than others, we have a solid group here and everyone should try to get to know everyone.

if someone says something stupid, call them out, then punch yourself in the face and realize we are all just here to have fun.

DewBaah wrote:

Your the same way pro. You don't take it personally either which is why your still here. If we took everything people said as a personal attack none of us would still be gaming together or chatting. Everyone would hate everyone.

Im just saying if someone says something to you first think if it's actually something that your doing and you can fix before lashing back out

I always lash out first!!

If I don't then I'll never get a chance to fire back. I suck at come backs!! LOL

hotwtrmusic wrote:

everyone just needs to take the time to get to know each others personalities.

some people are easier to get along with than others, we have a solid group here and everyone should try to get to know everyone.

if someone says something stupid, call them out, then punch yourself in the face and realize we are all just here to have fun.

Please let me know before you punch yourself in the face. I want to be very quiet and listen for the impact.

Pro_Vantage wrote:

hotwtrmusic wrote:

everyone just needs to take the time to get to know each others personalities.

some people are easier to get along with than others, we have a solid group here and everyone should try to get to know everyone.

if someone says something stupid, call them out, then punch yourself in the face and realize we are all just here to have fun.

Please let me know before you punch yourself in the face.  I want to be very quiet and listen for the impact.  

i'll make sure to turn up my mic!

Its going to be a great day!!!

Of course if you're like me you mute your mic for some random reason and no one hears me railing until after I realize I've been talking to a dead mic for an hour....

DewBaah wrote:

I really wish people would just sit in party chat with Renegade and Myself on any given night and just hear the tremendous amount of shit we talk to each other.

There is a lot of What the **** are you doing and things of that nature and as we all know I go above and beyond most times. The reason we get along though is because we both understand that , that is a heat of the moment thing and in 5 minutes it's forgotten. We have been gaming together for years now and there is no one whom I have said worst shit to then him, he doesn't take it personally and when he comes at me I usually have to agree with what he has to say.

Allow people to point out your mistakes and your flaws in anyway they feel comfortable. Acknowledge them and you will be able to grow from there.

Do it in the moment though and not on a forum or 5 days down the road in some super passive aggressive way. Deal with it directly and promptly and it will usually end with everyone having a laugh and playing a few more rounds.

There is just way to much hate brought on by people who take things far to personally when in reality it's just one person venting the only way they know how.

We need to actually listen to what each other has to say rather then being on the defensive all the time and know the difference between venting and hate.

Come in our lobby. You'll hear me get frustrated and you'll hear me offer support. I am as transparent as they come and I think we all could do with a little more of that.

I am just saying when we get frustrated with each other just stick it out don't take things so hard.

I have used Renegade as an example and no doubt he will consider this a love letter.

AWWWWW.. XOXO!!!!

I knew it would not take you long.