(post moved to PS3 only area)
Over the past few weeks I've found myself playing equal amounts of DOM/DEM and TDM. I have no preference - truth be told I'd rather be playing BFBC2 (LOL) but no-one else wants to.
What I would say is that there is a skill to playing TDM and working as a team to achieve good results for the whole team, in TDM we probably tend to all do our own thing. Arguably (contentious statement here) there is more skill in getting a good team win in TDM because its not so easy to control spawning.
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